A No Spend Challenge isn’t just about saving money; it’s a journey of self-discovery. At least, that’s what I learned after finally taking the plunge and completing my first one. Having just completed my fourth such challenge last month, I wanted to share the unexpected benefits I discovered.
It all started last January. For several years, I’d considered a No Spend Challenge in January as a new year reset. My birthday is in January, though, and that was always my excuse. “I can’t possibly have a no-spend month with my birthday!” I’d tell myself. But this year, I decided to ditch the excuses and give it a try.
Why Now? The Holiday Hangover
Honestly, I just needed to give my pocketbook a break. The holidays had taken their toll. From Thanksgiving to the end of the year, my spending always skyrockets. Special meals, extra events, more time with friends and family, presents galore – it’s a whirlwind of spending. Plus, my husband and I always seem to find something to treat ourselves with!
What I noticed was that every single time I ran to the store for “just one thing,” I’d emerge with a cart full of goodies. One day, I went to the dollar store for a card, for example. That $1 card ended up costing me $17.
This pattern repeated itself at every store. $50 later, $80 later, $100 later… I’d walk out with all these things. Things I’d use, yes. But things I needed? Well… that was a different story.
The (Surprisingly Simple) Rules of Engagement
I didn’t make a lot of rules going into my first challenge since I wasn’t sure what to expect. My main rule was to only spend on necessities. All my regular bills and subscriptions would continue as usual. This wasn’t about scrutinizing past commitments; it was about evaluating my current daily spending choices. I stocked up on a few essentials beforehand because I wanted to see how long I could go before setting foot in a store, realizing just how easily I overspend the moment I walked into one.
Resourcefulness to the Rescue: Using What I Had
Of course, on January 1st… I used the last dishwasher detergent tab. How did that happen? With all my preparations and extra supplies, how did I not notice the tub was almost empty? My experiment was almost over before it even began! Crisis was averted, though. I channeled my inner DIY Diva and looked online for alternatives. Turns out you can make your own detergent with Kool-Aid and Borax! (Yes, really.) Luckily, I didn’t have to resort to that. I found a half-full canister of our old dishwashing powder lurking under the sink. Time to use it up!
From the start, my one exception to the “no grocery store” rule was fresh produce and perishables. It’s hard to stockpile bread, milk, lunch meat, and fresh fruits and veggies. But even there, I tried to be resourceful. After my dishwasher detergent success, I wondered what else I could use up. We stretched our fruit supply for an extra week by digging into the applesauce and canned pineapple hiding in the back of the cupboard.
Pantry Power and Packed Lunches: Rediscovering Creativity
I had fun creating “pantry meals” from what was already in my freezer and cupboards. This made me realize how often I grab lunch out or a snack at the cafe in my office building. Suddenly, I had to plan. Taking my lunch, eating dinner at home, and having snacks and drinks on hand required forethought, planning, and yes, creativity! And that’s a lesson I’m still carrying with me.
Mindful Spending is More Than Just Money
This challenge wasn’t just about saving money; it was about mindful spending. I did spend money on some non-necessities, but only after careful consideration. What is a necessity, anyway? It’s the age-old question of wants versus needs, and most decisions fall into that murky gray area called “miscellaneous.” Take, for example, my annual donation to a charity I support. I could donate anytime, but then I discovered they had a matching gift program in January. Should I give up now or wait? After all, I was trying to spend as little as possible this month.
Wrestling with this decision made me more aware of those who don’t have the disposable income I often take for granted. I was debating this because of the artificial constraints I’d placed on myself. What about people who have to meticulously count every penny? I imagined myself in their shoes, struggling to afford even a small donation. It brought home how blessed I truly am.
In the end, I donated. I was already committed to supporting this charity, and why not double my impact through the matching gift? It turned out to be the right decision: do it now and avoid the end-of-year scramble.
You Can Have a Social Life on a Budget
What about going out with friends? That usually involves gas money and restaurants. Thankfully, I’ve never had to turn down an invitation because I couldn’t afford it. Yes, I might have to juggle things elsewhere. Hello, I don’t have unlimited funds. I do consider if something is “worth it” to me, but simply affording to go is rarely a question. Writing that makes me realize how privileged I am.
I didn’t want to become a hermit for the entire month. I’m always so busy, busy, busy, and it’s so easy to say “no” and so hard to say “yes.” I decided to embrace the opportunities to socialize. Relationships are more important than the potential savings. My compromise? I studied menus beforehand to find the more economical options. Lesson: There are different ways to be budget-minded.
Taming the Inbox to Save More
Think about all those emails in your inbox right now. The special offers, limited-time sales, and the “can’t miss” opportunities. So many shiny objects vying for your time and money. I used to evaluate each one: Should I get it? What are the pros and cons? Do I really need this? But during my first No Spend Challenge, I could simply say, “Nope. It’s No Spend January.” That simple thought took so much pressure off. I realized that if something is truly meant to be, the offer will come around again.
All those emails were overwhelming me with distractions, and temptations. Plus they were a huge time investment. So, I did something radical: I unsubscribed from a ton of them. I’d already figured out that the best way to save money is to stay out of stores. So why was I letting the stores come to me via my inbox?
Decumulating Takes a Lot of Time
What is decumulation? It’s a fun word that means the opposite of accumulation. Amazingly, with less time spent thinking about buying things, I had more time and mental energy to start decumulating. I own a lot of stuff, and I have a hard time letting go. This No Spend Challenge gave me a much needed break to deal with what I already own.
Piles accumulate everywhere, and I spend countless hours shifting things from one pile to another, telling myself I’m “organizing.” Anyone else have this problem? As Marie Kondo says, a tidy house comes from getting rid of the excess. For me, this no-spend challenge was the perfect catalyst for dealing with the excess.
While decluttering, I also found several things I could return, including a couple of Amazon purchases. One was a duplicate I didn’t even know I had, and another was an impulse buy I never used. This was found money going right back into my pocketbook!
So, what else could I do to earn money from what I already owned? I decided to try consigning some of my clothes instead of taking them all straight to the thrift store. Maybe I’d make some money, maybe not. At least I tried. (Spoiler alert: I didn’t make a dime. Everything ended up being donated after 90 days anyway.)
Then came “Decumulation Day.” This was my time to actually get the piles out of my house-thrift store donations, consignment drop-offs, returns, and recycling… I was shocked that it took hours to deal with getting rid of all the stuff I no longer wanted!
Do you ever think about how much time we spend dealing with our purchases? It’s exhausting! So much time, energy, and money is devoted to acquiring. Who would have thought it would take just as much to decumulate? Imagine the energy spent sorting through everything, then the time and gas I used driving all over town to get rid of what I did. It was astonishing. Now, I’m definitely more mindful about what I bring into my home.
Lesson Learned: More Than Just Saving Money
I didn’t track my spending, so I can’t tell you exactly how much I saved. But I know I saved a lot simply by staying out of stores and avoiding those impulse buys. However, the real gains aren’t quantifiable.
I gained time—time I used to spend agonizing over offers and sales, time I could now use for higher-priority pursuits. I also realized how much time I spent accumulating and decumulating. It takes so much time to shop, bring things home, and then deal with them later—whether it’s organizing, cleaning, repairing, or eventually getting rid of something.
This experience also rekindled my creativity and resourcefulness—skills I think we all could use a boost in. Limiting my spending became a fun puzzle. I had to think outside the box, rediscover the potential of items I already owned, and truly appreciate the resources at hand. It was a mental workout, forcing me to flex my problem-solving muscles.
Personally, these values—creativity, resourcefulness, and gratitude—are incredibly important to me because they remind me of my own capacity to adapt and thrive, no matter the circumstances. They connect me to a sense of abundance that goes beyond material possessions.
Beyond the personal benefits, I felt good about the positive ripple effects. More home-cooked meals meant healthier eating, and fewer shopping trips were a small win for the planet. The challenge also brought into sharp focus the abundance in my life, making me more aware of those less fortunate and inspiring me to give back. In fact, I found myself with extra cash to donate.
So, I survived my first No Spend Challenge and I learned that not spending saves so much more than just money. This first challenge inspired me to complete three more, and I know there will be more to come. Have you ever tried a No Spend Challenge? I highly recommend giving it a shot. What unexpected benefits might you discover? I’d love to hear your experiences and answer any questions you have!